How to Avoid Enabling a Drug Addict Drugs can take over not only the lives of those who suffer from addiction, but the lives of their family members and friends as well. As a parent, sibling, grandparent, friend, or partner of someone with a drug problem, you probably feel overwhelmed, saddened and angry at your loved one’s behavior, but still want to help. While this instinct is only natural, you could actually be doing more harm than good by helping someone close to you. By taking steps to avoid enabling your loved one, you can give the individual the incentive needed to seek help. 1. Don’t give the addict financial assistance. While it you may feel like you are helping your loved one to stay out of trouble by loaning them money or bailing them out of jail, providing financial assistance may actually have a counteractive effect. If your family member or friend knows that you will be there to help them, they are less likely to address their problem. It may be difficult for you, but you can most help your loved one by saying “no” when they ask for any type of financial help, no matter how small the amount. This may mean that your friend or family member has to face a difficult situation, such as jail time, but people are often more willing to seek genuine help when they have reached rock bottom. Instead of giving…